Some EXs Can Ruin A Very Promising Relationship (Be Careful)

So Cynthia dated Wale (not real names... Or real names... I don't really care) for four years before the once blissful relationship ended.

You know those school runs where you'd meet the guy in your year one and you guys will live the couple's life till you graduate from school. Anytime she comes visiting, she'd cook and if the guy's apartment is really "confam" (confam- he stays alone and his bed is cossy and there is no disturbance whatsoever) she'd stay through out the weekend and they'd 'run' things a lot (yeah you know what I'm talking about).

That was the kind of relationship Cynthia and Wale had. Wale knew all along that he was running a contract relationship with the babe - he just need someone to pass time with. He also knew he couldn't just approach Cynthia and clear her straight up that he just want a "contract" relationship. The possibility that Cynthia will agree to that kind of relationship is very slim. It can infact be likened to passing a camel through the eye of a needle.

Wale was busy all of a sudden, he was no longer creating time for Cynthia. He'd blame it on final year projects (yeah final year projects can be tasking eh and time consuming). He knew he needed to make up excuses so as to ease the break-up. He wouldn't want the babe to blame him or something.

At the end of the day, they'd have this long serious talk (I can't even remember the last time they had a serious discussion. It has always been about the 'pum pum and D'). In this serious talk, Wale will now show the babe some differences (at this point the smallest difference works. You just need to escalate it).

"You know I am a Muslim and you are a Christian" (as if they didn't know before they started out). "You know you stay on the Island and I reside on the mainland... It is not going to be easy for us"...... He'd come up with so many issues that will bring about doubt in the relationship.

He'd then say "Don't worry babe, you know I love you, we'd definitely work something out" (or something better. But it's still gonna the same effect).

He'd stop calling, no more BBM chats, no Insta chats and in no time you'd move on. You'd meet some other guy (you don't really love him the way you love Wale. But half bread is better than none, after all love is not the ultimate anyways shebi?)

Then one day, while seeing an episode of Game Of Thrones. Your phone rings and you pick it up to check who it is, and it is Wale. You don't even have his contact on your phone but you recognize that number (number wey you don call zillion of times)

You pick up trying to form vexed and shit (you have planned the way you'd respond) but on hearing his voice, you melt....

Then he'd go on and on about how he missed you and he was just tryna check up on you, then he'd start to tap into the emotions and shit.....

See it is really difficult for babes especially if that Wale was their first love but lemmie tell you something, don't fall for it. The guy doesn't miss you or anything. He only wants your pum pum. He has probably seen your picture on Instagram or somewhere "omo Cynthia don fine wella oo... Lemmie scope her to see how far?"

Don't fall for it....

This message applies to all other 'runs' too (not just school runs). Let EXs remain EXs. Remember objects in the rear mirror appears to be closer than they may seem.

A word is enough for all the Cynthia's out there.

But hey what do I even know sef, I don't even have a 'Wale' yet.

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